BJJ women feel whether men are popular or unpopular from Jiu-Jitsu sparring.

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Hello, It’s taiki.

The other day, I heard from women’s jiu-jitsu lover that when they are sparring with men, it seems that they kind of know whether they are popular or unpopular with woman  lol. 
It is an interesting story and everyone want to know, so I must research them. Let’s think about the popular of oozing out through sparring this time.

Sparring that unpopular seen from women.

In conclusion, sparring which is likely to be popular is specifically as follows.

  • Sparring full power even for women.
  • Even if you tap it they can not stop (not recognize).
  • Weigh heavily with Knee on the berry.
  • There are many “close contact” (+ sweaty).

It is surprisingly normal to ask what kind of interesting opinions you have. Rather there is a strange sense of satisfaction lol.
Especially from the viewpoint of women, sparring with men often has physical disparity, it is scary with the first person who is unknown.

As you can see in the image below picture that they should feel the difference between a giant and a man.

They would dislike their favorite jiu-jitsu if you were sparring full power with this physical disparity and berserk appearance of lack of calm.

Some people say that “I do not use power at all”, but I do not think what you think. It is an issue of how the others feel. In other words, even if you sparring with 50% power, partner feel that it as full power.


Full power image

Having said that, regardless of gender, I think that there are many people who are not good at “close contact”, but do not claim it because that person’s style. Please enhance the defense capabilities and manage somehow.

For this time, let’s think about control the power.

It is dangerous to have power before you would be popular with women.

Do you think that even people in the color belt are scared who you are sparing at full power?

It would be well if it is full-power sparring on mutual agreement when driving for the competition. However, suddenly commencing full-power sparring will be scared. If this  sparring with the color belt, it is good I think. But if white belt or people who do not have experience in jiu-jitsu, or when there is a physical disparity (inc. girls), they will injure those people. It is more scary when you sparring with them .

Perhaps they are getting excited. In such a condition, the skill becomes rough.Also  batting and kick enter the face might be happened. these causes bruises as well. Moreover, if their tap will be delayed, themselves are injured.

Do you need jiu-jitsu technique with full power?

If you increase the accuracy, the power to use will decrease. (Even so, I know that it will be powerful in competition)
Let’s try to control the power at the least while practicing, please remembering Caio  Terra’s famous quotes.

Caio Terra
“Technology conquers all.”

Caio Terra seems to do jiujitsu to control the power to say that even workout is not needed. If there is opportunity, I will try to confirm by talking directly to a person who has experience of training with him.

As an aside, Intel founder Andy Glove also has the same quote as Caio Terra.

Andy Glove
“Technology will always win.”

The world is different but the same thing is said. It may be the level where the person who arrives at the top.

Controlling the power is more useful than becoming popular.

A woman who practiced together has a bad reputation that when the power has not been controlled. It is thought that “He seems to be unpopular with girls.”

There is no problem if a middle-aged jiu-jitsu nameless lover seems to be unpopular with women. However, it is regrettable that the practitioner dislikes jiu-jitsu because of it and quits. Middle-aged jiu-jitsu lover is no more serious than unpopular with women. It has a big impact on the whole jiu-jitsu world.

Let’s take good care of the woman who came to jiu-jitsu with interest. (Of course, it is not limited to women.) It is sad that jiu-jitsu itself is disliked because of trivial matter. Let ‘s throw away the small pride that I do not want to lose at sparring, try sparring that thinks the future of the jiu-jitsu world and also lost power for myself!

Your gentlemanly sparring will  attract to new jiu-jitsu lovers.

By the way, how about woman who is a high level?


In the world there are mismatched girls with cute appearance and like a demon. (I want to introduce someday.)

Let’s challenge with full power. The full power mentioned here means not using full power at all, but using tech that you can use with just the power you need at timing. Unfortunately, I can not beat her if I open up my strength to these women, I will be lose and hated. lol

Gentle methods are often more effective than brute force.

This is the jiu-jitsu!

Summary: The stronger you become, the more gentle you become. (≒ It’s popular)

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You are not popular with girls while sparring with power. On the contrary, if you learn control of power, you will become gentler accordingly and you will be popular with girls if you become gentle!

The stronger you become, the more gentle you become! (By Yasushi Yamashita)

In other words, if you want to popular with girls, you need to control your power and become strong. Please be strong and get popular!

That’s all, “jiu-jitsu women feels from sparring that people are popular or unpopular with girls”.

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Jiu-Jitsu women send me comment.

As soon as a woman will beat him, they’ll say that “it’s okay, very good!” and their teaching will look down on me … please add in!

Fortunately for me there are few people like that person. However, I met the person who is teaching alike look down on me without instructor and the master. Maybe they want to  say that “I just slack off during sparring, but I’ll be stronger than you if I go all out”.

In addition, it seems not to be able to teach greatly with a sight from the top when doing it lol. They want to say “I’ll be stronger than you if I go all out!” Let’s do it in the competition. Also when you’ll be defeated, let’s accept it.

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